If you’re like most people, when you think of Valentine’s Day, you think of romantic love. You think of flowers and chocolates, expressions of sentimental feelings and big declarations of deep emotions. And while we love romantic love, there are so many shades of love — not just romantic!
The ancient Greeks had a beautiful philosophy about love, breaking it down into seven types: Eros, Ludus, Pragma, Agape, Philautia, Philia, and Storge. According to the ancient Greeks, each type of love reflects a different relationship and emotion associated with that relationship. This Valentine's Day, whether you’re in a romantic relationship or not, there’s plenty of love to celebrate. Here’s a deeper dive into the seven different kinds of love, their meaning, and the relationships that can grow out of each type of love. And if you’re still looking to round out your Valentine’s Day gifts, we’ll also guide you in the direction of the perfect kimono robe gifts to express the beautiful specificity in every shade of love in your life.
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Perhaps the most familiar of the different shades of love is eros. This is the kind of love that ignites sparks and butterflies — the passionate romance you feel for a partner. It’s sensual, fiery, and the basis of many love stories. You feel eros for your partner, the one who makes your heart race and fills you with excitement. This could be your spouse, significant other, or that person who makes even mundane moments feel like magic. For this relationship, a long silky robe from our Handpainted Silk Collection is perfect. A handcrafted silk men’s bathrobe or women’s bathrobe is an ideal declaration for your passionate love. Its handpainted design and luxurious 100% Grade 6A Raw Mulberry Silk evoke both intimacy and the care you put into this kind of love. When you gift a long silky robe, your love will feel like they’re wrapped up in a cloud. Pair it with a delicious bottle of wine, your favorite movie, and a quiet night in to celebrate your love.
Ludus: Playful, Flirtatious Love
Ludus is lighthearted and fun — the kind of love that comes from flirting, laughter, and shared inside jokes. It’s about joy and spontaneity, often found in the early stages of a relationship or with friends who bring out your playful side. You feel ludus for a flirty, fun-loving partner or the friend who always makes you laugh until your stomach hurts. For this relationship, a plus size women’s robe from our Printed Silk Collection is a meaningful way to say, “I like where this is going.” The range of beautiful colors in these plus size kimono robes suits a wide range of energies from calm to vibrant. Choose a minimalist pattern with pastels or a bold black design that’s elegant and sophisticated. Gifting a kimono robe to a new relationship is a flirty yet thoughtful gift to reflect the new memories you’re creating together.
Pragma: Enduring, Practical Love
Pragma is mature, long-lasting love rooted in deep understanding and commitment. It’s about working together, compromise, and building a life side by side. It’s sturdy and enduring, and something you can come to depend on. You feel pragma for your lifelong partner, your “rock,” or even a mentor who has stood by you through thick and thin. This kind of love is unwavering and stable. A long silky robe or silk men’s bathrobe from our Washable Silk Collection strikes the perfect balance between luxury and practicality. It’s easy to care for yet feels indulgent, much like the enduring love of a long partnership.
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Agape: Selfless, Unconditional Love
Agape is considered the highest form of love — the selfless, unconditional love you feel for humanity or for someone you cherish without expectations. It’s often associated with spiritual love or the care a parent shows for their child. Agape could be related to a deeply giving person in your life — perhaps a parent, grandparent, or someone who dedicates themselves to others. A plus size women's robe from our Charmeuse Collection is an ideal way to show unconditional love. Its luxurious elegance and inclusive sizing ensure that it feels like it was made just for them.
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Philautia: Self-Love
Philautia is the love you give yourself— which creates the foundation of all other kinds of love you can give. It’s about nurturing your well-being, setting boundaries, and celebrating who you are. This one’s all about you! You deserve to be celebrated just as much as everyone else on this list. Try treating yourself to a decadent piece from our Kimono Wrap Collection. With velvet trim and double-lining, each time you slip into your kimono wrap, you’ll feel like royalty. It’ll become the go-to self-care you can wear — something you’ll want to wear while sipping tea or journaling or relaxing with your favorite book.
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Philia: Deep Friendship and Platonic Love
Philia is the love of deep friendship — the bonds you share with people who feel like family. It’s loyal, supportive, and rooted in shared values and trust. These are your sisters and brothers, whether biologically related or not. This love is for your best friend, your sibling, or that person you call at 2 a.m. because you know they’ll always pick up. Send a silk men's bathrobe from our Men’s Collection to your best friend who’s like a brother. A classic, minimalist design works beautifully for all shapes, bodies, and friends.
Storge: Familial Love
Storge is the love we feel for family — parents, children, and other close relatives. It’s a nurturing, natural bond that often grows stronger with time. This may be what you feel for your parents who always supported your dreams, a sibling who shares your childhood memories, or your kids who bring endless joy to your life. For the closest members of your family, a floral long silky robe from our Curve Collection is a warm and thoughtful gift that feels like a hug. Its timeless design and soft fabric make it perfect for cozy mornings or family gatherings.
Pairing each kind of love with the perfect kimono robe isn’t just about giving a gift; it’s about giving something that reflects your gratitude and care. Whether it’s a plus size women’s robe for a parent, a silk men’s bathrobe for a close friend, or a kimono wrap for yourself, each gift is a reminder of the beauty and depth of love in all its forms. Take a moment this Valentine’s Day to think about the people in your life who embody these seven loves. Celebrate them, honor them, and most importantly, love them. After all, love of every kind is what makes life beautiful.
